The need for services for men in Singapore
Research shows that men are most often the perpetrators of domestic violence AND men can be victims of abuse too.
The use of violence is often a learned behavior and a learned attitude that views the use of violence as an appropriate means to gain controI and security.
SAFV recognizes that there are unmet needs and concerns that perpetrators of domestic violence face and societal stigmas that prevent men (whether victims or perpetrators) from seeking help.
This is where The Men’s Helplink can help.
In order to stop the cycle of violence, it is imperative that men who want to change and stop using violence against their partners receive help and support. It is equally important to support men who are experiencing violence in their relationships.
SAFV is here for you!
Are you being threatened, made to feel ashamed and hurt by someone in your family?
Are you having intense feelings of frustration, anger and anxiety?
Do these feelings get so intense that you think about hurting yourself and your loved ones?
Are you thinking and feeling that the best way to stop these feelings and thoughts is to “silence” your loved one with physical force?
During these trying times of the Covid-19 pandemic, many people are feeling stressed and struggling with what's happening at home. If you have a tendency to use violence against your family and loved ones and you want to change, help is available. Life might be particularly stressful now. There are stressors that many people are facing in their personal and work lives, with the added anxiety taking care of our health and well-being. SAFV understands that there are triggers that can make it hard for one to control their behaviours.
You may have questions about how to cope with what you are going through. We welcome your questions. SAFV will respond to your questions with ideas about alternatives to violence and refer you to services available in the community to help you in your journey of change.
The National CARE Hotline is available (8am - midnight) if you need to speak to someone immediately and specialists trained in psychological first aid are available to answer your call.
National CARE Hotline: 1800-202-6868
If you are at risk of or contemplating suicide, please call Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) 24-hour hotline.
SOS: 1800-221 4444
In reaching out for help, please ensure that you or your family members are not in any immediate danger. Please call the police immediately if there is any danger. Your safety is of utmost importance!
What kind of help is available?
Need to speak to someone? You can speak to a social worker or counsellor at the nearest FSC.
Find a listening circle platform or a men's treatment group for more support
Thank you for making this decision to get help.
SAFV's Men's Helplink aims to provide useful information and direct you to relevant services in your community to meet your needs. We do not provide direct services.
All the information you provide here will be strictly confidential.